01.29.11
Dress Warm
I wish it make you WARM~!!!
為啖氣…只是因為想爭氣
舊老闆的誠意, 的確令我有想過回巢.
友人都說我天真, 這裡是不可以讓我大展拳腳. 不過, 我還想堅持多一會.
在這裡, 至少有一個伯樂, 至少有個人相信我可以.
No Worry, I’ll Give It a Shot~!!!
01.24.11
復工@開工大吉
復工第一天.
回到公司即有好同事的熱情擁抱, 開心.
之後得到兩位大老闆的前來慰問, 感動.
lunch一大班同事浩浩蕩蕩去飲茶, Yeah.
覺得開工大吉~!!!
原來大家都記掛著我的笑聲~!!!哈哈.
在沒有咖啡沒有茶的情況之下, 精神有點不振.
不過星期一都已經到了, 星期五還會遠嗎?
P.S. 多謝同事日本旅行的小手信.
單身大晒 singlology 晒命版@2011.01.23
第一次看黃龍斌, 的確新鮮感十足.
“單身大晒”是一個很重形體表達的performance, 主打用movement 去表達內心情感, 講的是單身的心路歷程.
很喜歡他透過利用紅絲帶凌空做了多個高難度movement 的那一幕, 覺得我們每一天不就是這樣子嗎?
一個人的困就是如此.
對於他在人生道理的表達, 就有點失望, 可能我不喜歡畫公仔畫出腸的手法.
道理永遠知易難行, 說教的分享就是少了份觸動.
喜歡看獨腳戲, 覺得表演者跟觀眾的心總是拉得比較近一點.
P.S. 我覺得單身並不可怕, 可怕的是因為人不懂得跟自己好好相處.
01.22.11
微服出巡, 就是為了吹水
手術後微服出巡, 為的就是跟Kaka食飯吹水.
哈哈. 開心了一個下午. [就連傷口痛也忘記了呀…!!!]
P.S.今次的短聚真的可以媲美鼎泰豐的那一次, 在人多迫人的旺角居然可以午飯3小時. YEAH 
01.18.11
Two Pains in Life
“it’s been said that there are only two pains in life, the pain of discipline or the pain of regret, and that discipline weights ounces while regret weights tons.” ~ Anthony Robbins
她要 Soulmate; 他要騷媚;
好友在facebook 中的一句update “她要 Soulmate; 他要騷媚;” 這兩天在我的腦海裡轉了好幾個圈. 沒有問妳寫這句話的原因, 不過我心裡都明白了.
錯配總是很多. 要Right Time, Right Place, Right Way, Right People 合起來總是需要一點機緣巧合.
我相信每一個人都想找到他/她的Soulmate. 只是, 有些時候, 要不是我們都太在意尋找而忽略了沿途上並肩的人,就是我們都太放不開一個曾經讓你靈魂震撼過的他. 總相信, 尋尋覓覓的旅途都可以風光明媚.
真的, 我相信妳一定會找到你的Soulmate.
Eat Pray Love 其中一段講的也是Soulmate, 一齊分享吧.
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“I’m not laughing.” I was actually crying. “And please don’t laugh at me now, but I think the reason it’s so hard for me to get over this guy is because I seriously believed David was my soul mate.”
“He probably was. Your problem is you don’t understand what that word means. People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that’s what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that’s holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life. A true soul mate is probably the most important person you’ll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soul mate forever? Nah. Too painful. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then they leave. And thank God for it. Your problem is, you just can’t let this one go. It’s over, Groceries. David’s purpose was to shake you up, drive you out of your marriage that you needed to leave, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light could get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you had to transform your life, then introduce you to your spiritual master and beat it. That was his job, and he did great, but now it’s over.
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01.17.11
But I love him.So love him.But I miss him.So miss him. THEN… … DROP IT.
Suddenly just recalled one of the scenes from Eat Pray Love… … the conversation between Liz and Richard.
It’s always not easy, but you have to DROP IT anyway.
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Problem is, you can’t accept that his relationship had a real short shelf life. You’re like a dog at the dump, baby – you’re just lickin’ at the empty tin can, trying to get more nutrition out of it. And if you’re not careful, that can’s gonna get stuck on your snout forever and make your life miserable. So drop it.”
“But I love him.”
“So love him.”
“But I miss him.”
“So miss him. Send him some love and light every time you think about him, then drop it. “
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不能開的玩笑|之|至少還有我
是因為情緒的失控已經令自己失去應有的理智, 或是你想告訴大家你的痛苦比起生命還重要呢?
我明白你的愁苦, 但我更加明白做事定當有底線. 有一些事是不可以開玩笑的.
其實, 大家為甚麼都喜歡用死亡去威嚇我呢?!?!?! 你們都忘了世界對你們的愛嗎?!?!?!
請記住, 至少還有我.
01.16.11
The Social Network@一起共患難, 不能共富貴
不得不承認 facebook 有它過人的魔力, 至少讓我們(大部份人)每天都得上facebook 才安心.
當然, 它抓住了人性的重心, 而且, 在這個時代, stay connected 可能才會讓大家的心踏實一點. (這究竟是怎麼的一回事呢?! 以前我們說, 晚點通電話吧. 現場卻說晚點facebook見.)
當我們都把facebook 作為主要溝通工具的時候, 我們是不是都把溝通的目的都本末倒置了?
當Mark Zuckerberg 因為自己的溝通能力而創造了幾千萬人的主要溝通渠道. 這是一個嘲諷嗎?
剛看完了The Social Network, 心裡不太舒服.
我不知道電影跟現實的落差有多大, 但是電影的內容就是太真實得讓我不太舒服.
我在想, What is Team? what is friendship? what is partnership?
”一起共患難, 不能共富貴” 是不是一個宿命?
情願 “道不同不相為謀” 或者是”同枱食飯各自修行”呢? 平衡點究竟在那呢?
Dolce Far Niente@Eat, Pray, Love
因為Julia Roberts, 所以對Eat, Pray, Love 有一點期望. 不過沒有想像中的好看.
故事說的是Liz因為迷失了自己, 所以要一個人去不同的地方 (意大利, 印度, 峇理) 去尋回自己.
我總是認為, Let it Go is always the best way to free yourself. It’s not an action, but a state of mind with strong determination.
很喜歡其中在意大利舊式髮型屋的那一幕, 是這樣的.
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Luca Spaghetti: “Americans. You work too hard, you get burned outYou come home and spend the whole weekend in your pajamas in front of the T.V.”
Liz: “That’s not far off, actually.”
Luca Spaghetti: “But you don’t know pleasure. You have to be told you’ve earned it. You see a commercial that says: ‘It’s Miller Time!’ And you say, That’s right, now I’m going to buy a six pack. And then drink the whole thing and wake up the next morning and you feel terrible. But an Italian doesn’t need to be told. He walks by a sign that says: You deserve a break today. And he says, Yes, I know. That’s why I’m planning on taking a break at noon to go over to your house and sleep…with your wife!”
Giovanni: “We call it “dolce far niente”, the sweetness of doing nothing.”
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我想一直以來我都太不懂 the sweetness of doing nothing~!!! 所以我很喜歡去歐洲, 很響往那裡很懂享受的環境.
享受, 是一種生活態度.
P.S. Julia Roberts 的眾多電影裡面, 還是最喜歡Dying Young.
01.15.11
One Bite at a Time
昨晚睡得不好, 可能因為想多了.
醒過來的時候一想到今年要做的事, 心就抽搐了一下. (對, 我現在是要好好休息讓身體康復起來的!!! 不過大家都該了解我的勞碌命啦. 如果要我停下來, … ….. 最多就是慢行啦)
Well, 性格決定命運.
記起小時候聽的一個比喻:
How to eat an elephant? One Bite at a Time.
Let’s Bite it!!! Bite it!!! Bite it!!!
以金錢換取時間, 或以時間換取金錢
每次的決定都在權衡輕重緩急, 都在問”這重要嗎? 有多重要?”
要跳出這個魔咒, 我不想找捷徑, 只想另闢血路.
P.S. 想了幾天, 去旅行, 就要以金錢換取時間. 哈哈.
Just because marginal benefit is much greater than marginal costs given the sunk costs being spent and opportunity cost being evaluated.
Back to the Future
Haha…finally got a chance to watch the movie “Back to the Future (I - III)” (Yep, it’s my 1st time to watch it)
Well, it was an pretty imaginative piece back in the time of 80’s. What another great movie produced by Steven Spielberg!
My favorite quotes of the film:
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The future isn’t written. It can be changed, you know that. Anyone can make their future whatever they want it to be. I can’t let this one little photograph determine my entire destiny. I have to live my life according to what I believe is right in my heart.
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Jennifer: Excuse me, Doc Brown. I brought this message back from the future and, well, now it’s erased.
Doc: Of course it’s erased.
Jennifer: But what does that mean?
Doc: It means your futures haven’t been written yet. No one’s has. So make it a good one, the both of you.
01.12.11
My Thought for Today
There is no true reality, only my reality. ~ Jessiology
Given all the deletion, distortion, generalization that we have applied together with all our beliefs, attitudes, values and rules, all the events will be finally coded into subjective internal presentation in our mind.
我一定會好快好返哂架~!!!
“Drugs are not always necessary. Belief in recovery always is.” ~ Norman Cousins
01.10.11
Being rejected for 1009 times
Can’t imagine the persistence and burning desire that Colonel Sanders had.
Well, success is not an accident.
