05.31.06
我愛 故我在
茫茫大海 曾經感慨 也曾無奈
常問世間不如意事為何無處不在
幾經磨練才發現生命貴乎可一不可在
人生起跌亦無礙
沿途得失也應該
記住一直向前別發呆
看遠方夢與想在期待
珍惜分秒的存在
只因今天還有愛
永遠相信… …我愛故我在
05.30.06
The Phantom of the Opera
終於都買左phantom 飛喇… 一直係咁等加場…. 終於都等到加尾場 HaaHaaHaa
(第一次睇musical 睇尾場呀…希望氣氛勁熱鬧啦)
好期待呀!!!
其實諗諗下都覺得幾貴, 成$800一張飛…
不過, 鍾意冇計啦 …
記得10年前睇過, 但係印象已經超模糊
(o個陣時因為係學生冇$$$, 所以買左山頂飛, 但係都成$400幾) … ..
希望今次睇得開開心心啦 !!!!!
http://www.musicnationgroup.com/Phantom/
Argumentum ad populum
A group of kindergartners are studying a frog, trying to determine its sex. “I wonder if it’s a boy frog or a girl frog,” says one student. “I know how we can tell!” pipes up another. “All right, how?” asks the teacher, resigned to the worst. Beams the child: “We can vote.”
This is argumentum ad populum, the belief that truth can be determined by more or less putting it to a vote. Democracy is a very nice thing, but it doesn’t determine truth. Polls are good for telling you what people think, not whether those thoughts are correct.
Life with KISS Principle
I have previously chatted with my boss that we should have a simpler life in this knowledge economy while the fast-changing world seems to complicate our daily lives in a multi-dimensional way resulted in losing focus, direction and most importantly, meaning.
So I would like to let my life work on my modified “KISS” principle - Keep it Simple and Strategic!
05.26.06
To Regret, or not to Regret
I wish I’ll only regret for the things that I’ve tried, but not those I haven’t … …
There were already so many things that I regret for not trying to do in the past …….
but I promise to myself that I won’t let it happen again in the future!!
05.25.06
左邊 v.s 右邊
o係同一件事上面,
朋友甲同我講, “佢只不過係利用你, 所有野都係一早鋪排好哂等你踩落去”
朋友乙同我講, “佢真係好賞識, 睇重你, 有乜野好機會同荀野都比哂你”
我… o係呢個問題上面諗左好耐 …好耐 …
雖然我係對佢又愛又恨 … …
而我呢兩位朋友都睇到一d由佢地思考模式反映出黎o既觀點, 理由
但係成件事上面, 我只可以用”各取所需”黎形容我地o既關係 !!!
我唔想將一個可能利用我o既人當好人…
但係我更加唔想將一個可能對我好o既人當壞人…
如果要將問題放o係其他人身上, 點解唔試下從另一個角度睇下, 諗下
與其相信事情只會一係左邊, 一係右邊,
我寧願選擇相信從上面看 ….
突然間, 諗起Albert Einstein 講過 “No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it” … 果然係好有智慧 … … Thanks Albert!!!
05.24.06
別遺下我
那一刻 愛情驟然到訪 到黑暗中給我曙光
以為終於找到 從前一切只為今天鋪路
下一秒 你說抱歉看錯 不能勉強對號入座
風雪無情封印 再一次問為何選擇了我
兩個人的世界 只剩我不停撒賴
一個人的夜晚 流著淚孤單望街
太清楚 你早已遠走 只有我被滯留
沒有你 生活可依舊 心情卻酸溜溜
很想問 愛未曾銘心 為何一直痛恨
只知道 一切己陌生 以後再沒可能
完全沒遮掩 我已被刺傷倒地 恨恨的遭你遺棄
矛盾地希冀 你會後悔放棄我 願再愛錯別路過
05.23.06
新歌推介: 張開眼睛 by 劉德華
近期鍾意o既新歌… … 我第一次聽到o既時候已經聽到眼濕濕
尤其係聽到: “亦未見得得失影響心情 難道你天生很好勝”
可能佢有d野講得好中啦…
張開眼睛 劉德華
作曲: 藍奕邦
填詞: 劉德華
未見得一切都要公平 成敗也總要問究竟
亦未見得得失影響心情 難道你天生很好勝
*全部靠即興只會不得要領 凡事要心中決定
行捷徑心領其路更要冷靜 沒有輸 怎會勝 用努力來往上調整
以後前途反覆要鎮定 以後迷途不需找算命
以後沿途危難總要企定 學會張一張開一雙眼睛
未見得光陰一退需要停 無用去一再望背影
人沒有一生揮不去慘情 自會好心好報應*
Hahaha…. Hahaha……
Repeat *
人沒有天生高一班的生命 自會好心得到好報應
Hahaha…… Hahaha…….
Fourth Round of Negotiation
Today is my fourth round of negotiation with you… …
Thank you so much that you don’t force me to do something I don’t want and don’t instruct me to do in the right beginning … … but continue to persuade me and share your vision with me…
In fact, i’m deeply moved & touched by your sincerety… ….
And I’ll really want to give you a hand from the deep of my heart …
But I’m sorry that it’s really not a good timing for me and I have already made up my mind …
U know, that’s really so hard to reject you … that make me feel bad during the rest of the day!!
發現
開始的時候, 本來討厭的東西在喜歡的人身上出現都可以視若無睹
往後的日子, 我們才把既往開來的事實驟變成驚人發現而怒髮衝冠
P.S. 正所謂, 你唔可以因為你自己以前盲, 而突然間恢復視力就係咁發爛渣
05.22.06
What is JESSiology?
someone asked me what JESSiology is … …
To me, the answer is simple -
“JESSiology is a lifestyle, attitude and belief that life could be better if we wanna be …”
Perception v.s. Truth
Why we still insist on our perception while our own ways of seeing things are just partially true ?!
05.21.06
Exceptional Cases ?!?!
In real life when being arguing with other people the way we behave, we always got used to respond “Oh yes, but what about…” or “someone also don’t do but also sucessful” defense. We always look for alternative explanations for things or others’ suggestions all the time, to prove our own way of doing things being valid and reasonable
To seriously think about that, is it valuable to find the flaws of other’s suggestion and to weaken their arguments to prove we are RIGHT, instead of looking the essence of their reasoning?
Causation - by Friedrich Nietzsche
The great German philosopher, Friedrich Nietzsche, put it perfectly in his 1888 book Twilight of the Idols:
“There is no more dangerous error than that of mistaking the consequence for the cause: I call it reason’s intrinsic form of corruption”
Prioritize to do things which are IMPORTANT and URGENT
… but Neither IMPORTANT nor URGENT alone.
Inspired by Steven Convey (one of my favourite trainers)… …
The captioned suggestion is really simple enough to understand but difficult to implement in our daily life while tones of of Time Management theories were built on that as the key element behind… …
This topic has come up with my mind so often these days that I think it’s time to re-consider it!!! Perhaps I was just too occupied with so many unimportant and not urgent things these days… … [Alert!!!]
