11.21.07

改變

Posted in WhatJessThink at 11:01 pm by Jess Leung

儘管再堅持, 你也是改變不了最親近的人.

那就不必成為一個自討苦吃的可憐蟲.

雖然一個人能夠影響另一個人, 但一個人並不會因為另一個人而改變.

強迫也只會是短暫及徒然.

3 Comments »

  1. 24601 said,

    November 22, 2007 at 12:43 am

    每個人都希望自已可以改變別人，進一步來說，更希望可以控制別人，這想法不難理解。但如果因達不到目標而令自已煩惱，試試問自已，你又會否因為一個最親近的人而去改變你自已呢？

  2. Jess said,

    November 22, 2007 at 3:06 pm

    改變是一種企圖, 控制是一種手段. 兩者皆不能被justified.

    我相信生命影響生命.

    但一個人會否改變是取決於個人本身的價值觀, 對事件之判斷及執行力.

    我會改變, 但只會因為外在的人與事之經歷及所產生之反思而作出改變.
    當然, 依我性格, 改變並不易.

    現在的我, 並不會強迫他人改變 (只會徒勞無功).
    而且, 討論及啟發(對己及人)比起改變更為重要.

  3. Jess Leung said,

    November 22, 2007 at 10:44 pm

    Again…forget to say that the name “24601″ you have used reminded me of something valuable & memorable, which I have also used that set of number as my user name in the past. Not sure if that’s meaningful to you or just a coincidence.

    To me, it not only represents a person that I admire, but also is a sign of persistence.

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